destiny can always be changed, outcome can't

is it true that if you see a person for a glimpse the world no longer matters to you? or is that too far a chance to happen to anyone on this Earth?

i have been told that during the nine months in which your mother is pregnant, God flicks your future right before your very eyes in an instant but enough to keep it intact in your concious mind. but when you passby those moments or people or incidents or whatever; it's as if you've been there before - dejavu people call it. i call it a second chance.

if you focus enough on that one moment that happens to you in this time after you were born you could possibly alter the outcome to your advantage. how's that for a theory? just think - accidents that haven't happened yet, arguements which you haven't feud, people you know who are still alive. these moments, if you focus hard enough on them, really hard, then you could possibly change your own future and those you love and care about.

as i believe it, there are two timelines that we can choose to live, the one that is set for us or the one that we create through our actions. if we follow the carrot we will only go to where it is written for us to go. but if we had our donkey to ride on (provided we have a carrot and stick to steer it), then we could choose not to do the action that is written for us and move on to another choice. therefore, altering destiny but not the outcome.

you can always change your destiny, anyone can, its always been in your grasp. but the outcome will always stay the same. call it monopoly. you're gonna pass Mayfair no matter what you try to do and sooner or later you're run out of dosh to pay it back with all those hotels and houses on rent. right?

the outcome? you're out of the game.

one way or another we're going to go where its written for us to go. but in order to understand in why we ended up in that place, we need to make our own choice, create our destiny and be held responsible for our own actions.

boy, does my head ache..