an elephant never forgets

I have been having a rough time with dealing with a few people in my life that - and to be totally honest - I would disapprove of the attitude with me for one reason or another. And for those type of people I try and try again to understand their point of view of the problem with me but to no avail. And I end up failing in such a simple task to the point that I would just totally give up.

Attitude is and has always been a problem with people because of their different personalities. Some are just born keen to face everyone they see in their face while others are not. But faced with people you get to see everyday with a negative attitude and a much less appreciative manner of dealing in respect is just simple something, to which I believe, that no one in the world could ever handle unless you were an antisocialist to the bone.

At this point in such a situation, you end up asking yourself again and again, is there something I haven't tried to reconcile against the differences between the two of us? Would there a way around all of this? What can be done to face such a mental tragedy that neither would ever look, or speak to the other?

What would you say is the answer?